[quote:c9ws6qth]I believe that it is not a conscience choice as to what one finds sexual stimulation from after a repeated pattern has been established. But once the pattern is no longer reinforced, then an oppertunity to change can be established.

A quote I once read: “Nothing changes until the pain of [b:c9ws6qth]not[/b:c9ws6qth] changing is greater than the pain of changing.”

I found that to be true in my situation. ” title=”Smile” />[/quote:c9ws6qth]

[color=darkblue:c9ws6qth]That makes sense and was helpful.[/color:c9ws6qth]