Thank you for your reply. I am really kind of upset with the way it is being handled though. I told my fiance that I was not planning on living with him. My roommate and I did not get along at all and there was no other option for me because I couldn’t get out of my lease, but i couldn’t live with her. The priest didn’t even care to listen to the situation. We live with 4 other people not including us. Is it still not acceptable even through my situation?