… and it would fit perfectly with my wife’s nature. Not deceitful, either.

For awhile, I was involved with Codependents Anonymous, although it quickly seemed pointless, or my particular group did. Everything was a gripe session. Anyhow, my point is that people quickly recognized that the most codependent action you could take was to chase loved ones around with a self-help book. I was preparing to do that with my wife — Scott Hahn books, which tend to be light but with lots of logic and meat to the arguments. Hail Holy Queen was the first. But I think your way is better, Victor…