Are you suggesting that I take Purgatory “out of context”

Would you prefer I say ” If we are not perfected by the time we die, we will be perfected in purgatory. He loves us too much to allow us to be less than what he created us to be. Purgatory is not about an angry God inflicting punishment upon his creatures. It is about a loving Father who “disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness” (Heb. 12:10).”

once again I ask a simple question – how come your church says
1 we must be purifiied
2 we can pray others out
3 but Jesus couldn’t by his work at Calvary as Hebrew 1:3 says ” after having purged us?”