[quote:334y7xoo][color=darkblue:334y7xoo]True, but only pointing it out to them is going to inflame them. I’m no expert, but I have dealt with some pretty violent people (some are family) and not once did pointing out to them their past actions/flaws did they take it lightly. It usually got them mad.[/color:334y7xoo][/quote:334y7xoo]
That sounds like an issue of pride and humility to me.