I did not want to be the first to respond here-because I am family.Since 3 days have passed-I’m over that guilt.

It would be nice to hear from others, as Jon has asked I do believe feelings change from before marriage to being married many years.(27 on the 27th of Aug. for us).

That is why this time,before the marriage of our first-born daughter, is so wonderful for us. We relive our own courtship and early marriage. It was a wonderful time—-but having ‘been there’ we also remember the struggles and adjusting we needed to do—-and that is not bad at all because we still struggle with issues and we still adjust to the other’s life journey. ( hopefully hindsight makes us helpful and not “bud in ski’s” lol.

As for how things have changed?? We always thought we put God first -even in the beginning of our marriage. But our following of God’s word was far off track. (at this moment I feel like we were following God but on the frontage road, never quite in His path, running into roadblocks that did not exist on the straight and narrow highway)

That’s why I believe inviting God into marriage has been so good—we still are little lambs after all these years —and He has been so wonderfully watching over us even through each one of our juvenille ideas.

That’s all for now—-okay the rest of you married folk, or perhaps folks who have been married or in long-term relationships please speak up ” title=”Very Happy” />