i do think of myself as a catholic and attend church regularly but i do not follow the the religion the way others do, so i believe that unmarried couples can live together as how are you really meant to know someone before youve lived with them for me it would be like marrying a stranger and sex before marriage i think that if you really love the person you are with and see a future as a couple then what is wrong with sex before marriage it creates an intimate bond between the couple,

so do you think the church will till marry me as my wedding was booked months before i even knew i was pregnant and we always had safe sex until an accident, and i will be married before the child is born?

we always said we would wait till married for children but obviously abortion is not a option for either of us