If I was God, or your confessor in the confessional, I’d be able to sit in judgement of you. If I was God, I would be able to know all your reasons for possibly leaving the Church. As I am neither, I cannot judge you, but simply pray for you. If you do leave the Church, you can be assured, I will not judge you, but simply pray that you return, and when you do, you bring your girlfriend back with you….
If you do leave the Church, you will still be welcome here, and your questions, as they have always been respectful.