The line between concern and judgement is extremely thin, speaking from personal experience you probably did make a judgement in that conversation, it’s very easy to do. I find myself reminding myself many times throughout the day not to judge others. Infact I believe its very near impossible not to. I’d be surprised if someone came up to me and said I didn’t judge one person today. For example everytime I’m driving along i find it very difficult not to make a judgement about whether i like the look of the girl on the pavement (sidewalk). Peace