Actually, sports games etc. are technically unnecessary, but they are enjoyable.
Relationships are of course meant to be enjoyable, but that is not the ONLY thing they are meant to do. If it was, having Sex outside of marriage would be no problem since we are only in it for the pleasure, right?
Being sarcastic might be funny but the unavoidable truth is that MOST highschool kids have no idea what on earth a reltainship really entails. Do they immediately learn after they get out of highschool? No, but at least outside of highschool there is a reason for it. In Highschool, there is no reason and they can be harmful AND they often take attanetion away from thigns that ARE important in higschool, such as one’s family and one’s studies.