[quote:36qgqb6r]Without intimacy in marriage there is no life (technically).[/quote:36qgqb6r]

True, but here are your options:

1. You continue being intimate and risk that she may get pregnant and both she and the baby may die (for sure she will, the baby is questionable).
2. You use contraceptives.
3. You both make the decision to not be intimate due to the circumstance.

Which one would you choose?

~Victor